Making Fire

May 18, 2012 Posted by admin

By:  Randi Rourke Barreiro

About a month ago, a client of Sky Woman Media pointed at me during a meeting and said, “I like the way she thinks.”  I overheard someone gush to a client that experiencing her presentation was life-changing.

These words are seared into my memory because I’m learning that staying focused on the positive is essential to successful self-employment.  When I get discouraged, I remember that someone somewhere values and appreciates my hard work.  As a mother of three, I find myself repeating this out loud to no one in particular, especially during– and immediately after– toddler diaper mishaps.

The admin process is . . . meh.  Too much paperwork, not enough time.  Too many questions, not enough competent customer service.  Too many bills, not enough cash.  Way too much self-doubt, not nearly enough Cherry Garcia.

The next thing I know, there’s a Tribal dba certificate on my office wall, Articles of Incorporation in the file, clients are making referrals, and the company’s bank account has actual funds in it.  I’m having a moment, feeling like Tom Hanks in Castaway: “I! Have! Made! Fire!”  Then I look at the vast ocean before me, and refocus on my long-term goals.

Because a large part of strategic communication requires constant positive reinforcement, I’m blessed to be able to show friends and clients how valuable their efforts are: that their words are profound and deserve a wider audience, that their work could benefit all of Indian Country, that they can contribute to their community and world beyond our reservation borders, and that their knowledge has broad applications and great significance. (more…)

How to Raise (Terrible) Children

May 16, 2012 Posted by admin

By:  Twyla Baker-Demaray

If there is anything Native people know, it’s having babies.  We LOVE to have babies.  Or well, maybe we just love to . . . never mind.  That’s a whole other topic.  At any rate, we still tend to have larger families than the mainstream, of all shapes and sizes, blended or not blended, with multiple generations in one household.  As a parent, I’ve learned a thing or two about raising a kid (or seven), which I thought I’d share.  In the revered tradition of some tribes, your teacher may end up teaching you in a ‘backwards’ or ‘Trickster’ manner; that is, by embodying the opposite  of a life teaching.  Whether it was the avarice and greed of Coyote, or the harsh wit of Spider, Natives had all manner of ‘sacred clowns’ teaching us how not to live.  If you look closely, you’ll see that they continue to do so to this day.  In honor of this tradition, I thought I’d offer some advice for those of you wishing to raise ungrateful, socially-stunted children into anti-social, ill-prepared adults.  You’re welcome (that is, if you said ‘thank you’– more on that later). (more…)

Of All the Rights of a Woman, the Greatest is to be a Mother

May 14, 2012 Posted by admin

By:  Renee Holt

Colonization has distorted so many indigenous values and views. Women were held in high regard and were the backbone of family and community. Too much chauvinism in our communities, long time ago when a woman spoke, men bowed their heads and listened. There was much respect.—Kimberly Tootoosis (Nakoda/Cree)

I dedicate this column to my beautiful daughter, Alana Tiikpuu and to all the beautiful, strong women out there in Indian country.  You inspire me to be greater than I ever imagined and wake me up in the morning even when the sun doesn’t shine; and for all my Indigenous sisters, although we are miles apart and we may never meet, scattered across this beautiful land we call Mother earth, We’tespe or Na’ha’zhaan Bi’kaah, as a single mom.  I know that I do not struggle alone, and for that you are my greatest inspirations.

*As is the mother, so is her daughter. Ezekiel 16:4

Recently, I experienced pain that opened my heart to a family history that I had long suppressed.  The emotional pain and abuse I experienced made me look within, especially as I sought help and support- both professionally and personally.  The details of domestic violence are never pretty and shame invades my pride.  Not wanting to share the mistreatment and struggling with the hurt, all of that changed when I looked into my daughter’s eyes recently.

The pain I saw made my eyes sore from the realization that I was no different than my friends and relatives and women across Indian country that endure, or have endured, domestic violence.  Despite my education level, I want to state, being educated does not always mean one has “made it.”  After all I had been taught and led to believe, I know now that getting an education does not always equal “safe” or “successful.”  Personally I had been taught that getting an education means knowing “right” from “wrong” and that one could attain and secure a good job.  I was the poster child for that after completing my Masters degree.  I found a good job and worked long hours and traveled many flights across Indian country, trying to make a difference. (more…)

The Mis-education of a Dream

May 11, 2012 Posted by admin

By Dana Lone Hill

My grandpa Joe used to love to buy stuff from infomercials, except back then they were just commercials.  Back then the stuff he bought took up a whole room.  This was in the late 70’s and early 80’s.  I remember because my Grandma Erna would take the huge TV remote control away and turn the TV off, telling him they didn’t have the space.

My stepdad Robert was the same way.  He had everything from a breadmaker, to a food dehydrator, to a belly shrinker.  I always thought it was funny, almost everything he bought was about food and losing weight.  I bet the infomercial people loved him.

Buying a dream, my mom used to say.  The same way my Grandma Erna said it.  That didn’t stopped either of them- they always bought into a dream.

People will, that’s the funny thing.  Buy into a dream, and there is always someone willing to sell one- like my stepdad’s belt that shocked him, but never shrunk his belly.  Clearly, he knew it wasn’t that easy to lose belly fat, but he was still disappointed.  God bless his soul.

The other day I saw the ultimate hustle.  A hustle that was so genius, it went beyond the grave.  Seriously, nobody is making that big of a deal about it, but maybe they can’t because this man who sold this dream, to Oprah Winfrey even, is dead and has been for close to 40 years.

Forrest Carter wrote the book The Education of Little Tree.  His so-called autobiography, that sold ok back in the 70’s, turned into a sleeper hit when it was made into a paperback in the 80’s.  The book was endorsed by Oprah Winfrey in 1994.  It was adapted into a screenplay and made into a movie in 1997.  Even when Oprah removed it from her list of recommended books in 2007 it wasn’t made as big a deal of as when she took back her endorsement of James Frey’s spotty and fabricated memoir A Million Pieces of Me.

After reading the story on NPR, I decided to watch the movie.  The movie is cute.  It is a coming of age movie about an orphan child who is half white and half Cherokee, who goes to live with his grandparents.  His “Granma” is Cherokee and his “Granpa” is Scottish-Cherokee and a moonshiner.  Little Tree, the supposed author Forrest, soon learns the art of hustling as a moonshiner.  He also eventually learns about racism.  He is removed from his grandparents’ home and sent to a boarding school where he encounters more strife.  It could be a believable, if not somewhat romantic viewpoint, as most ‘typical’ American Indian movies go.  It is the typical sad, ‘plight of the Indian’ theme, as he grows in two worlds.  Yeah, I cried- but so what.  I have been known to let my eyes water up a little bit for certain Disney and Pixar movies, once in a great while.

So where is the hustle?

Mr. Forrest Carter never existed.  Little Tree never existed.  If that still doesn’t seem like a big deal because so many authors use pen names and have ghostwriters, listen to this.

Forrest Carter was Asa Carter.  Asa Carter wasn’t even Cherokee.  The whole story was fabricated from his research about the Cherokee.  Then he became Cherokee himself, along with half the nation.  Still no one really thinks it’s a big deal, right?  I mean it’s not like today, where Johnny Depp is starring as a comic book character and his Hollywood make-up throws people in an uproar.  There have been other books about Native Americans written by white people, right?  Maybe even by wannabes.  Especially those who’ve written books that were made into movies.  After all, who wrote Dances with Wolves, anyway?

Yet what about a book that was purported to be an autobiography by a self- proclaimed “Story Teller of The Cherokee Nation,” who was also a former radical Klu Klux Klansmen?

That’s right, the author of the ABBY award winning The Education of Little Tree was the speech writer for segregationist Governor George Wallace of Alabama, an opponent of the civil rights movement.  He founded one of the most radical independent Klu Klux Klan groups ever, The Klu Klux Klan of The Confederacy.  In fact, it was the group that attacked Nat King Cole at a concert in Birmingham in 1956, and the same radical group that abducted a black handyman in 1957 and castrated him.  He spread hate and he spread it well.  Those are only a few of the notches on his belt as a radical racist, including murder charges that were dropped.

So how does Asa Carter become Forrest Carter, the man who teaches the world how wrong racism is?  Since he is gone, and he vehemently denied who he was to the end, this is my theory.  I believe Mr. Carter was so racist, he reversed his ideals, wrote about them, and made money.  He was a hustler.  He was selling dreams, not his dreams anymore- but the opposite, because he saw the opportunity.

So how are we supposed to feel about this cute little story called The Education of Little Tree?  I saw comments about the Minnesota NPR report, “The Artful Reinvention of a Klansmen,” and was wondering why it was a big deal.  Some wondered, why can’t people just take what they want from the story?  I decided to ask one of the actors of the movie how she felt about it herself.

If you ever saw a movie about Indians, then you know who Tantoo Cardinal is.  She has been in more movies than I even knew about and I thought I knew them all.  Well respected among Indigenous and non-Indigenous communities for her superb acting, as well as work as an activist, this is what she had to say:

“I didn’t see wicked racism in the story.  It was a story, sweetly told, fiction, of a moment in history.  I heard that he had been a member of KKK.  I thought perhaps it was a rethink?  Perhaps?  Then, consider the closets of other writers and artists… what lurks there.  I felt it was an opportunity to tell a story.  We who retold the story are not, and never have been (as far as I know) a member or actors in such wickedness.  I didn’t believe he was Indigenous.  It didn’t make sense that a redskin would be welcome in that club.

As an actor in my position there are always elements to be weighed.  In the early years they were all white stories in the sense they are being told through “their” filter.  I had to do things I was not happy about to keep the ball rolling as best I could, in the hopes that we would (and we did) get to the place where were telling our own stories.  Every project was an opportunity to move forward in some way…an opportunity to learn more, for more people to gain some experience.  And sometimes an opportunity to open the door to a newer set of stories.  This was an opportunity to drop a little hint about the removal of our children from our homes and communities.  This was not a mainstream consciousness, nor is it yet.”

Much respect to Tantoo for her input, and it is at that point, like she said.  We are here, we are telling our own stories, from Gyasi Ross, to Sherman Alexie, to Adrian Louis, to Louise Erdrich- and all the other wonderful Native authors out there who tap the keyboard and pick up the pen, because they know they carry the stories of our people.  Maybe Asa Carter fooled the world but you can bet that won’t happen again.  There are too many of us that are here to tell our stories, and thanks to outlets like Lastrealindians, we are here to stay.

 

“`Little Tree’ is a lovely little book, and I sometimes wonder if it is an act of romantic atonement by a guilt-ridden white supremacist, but ultimately I think it is the racial hypocrisy of a white supremacist.” -Sherman Alexie

Vern Traversie Justice Rally & March

May 10, 2012 Posted by admin

At the Edge of the Road

May 9, 2012 Posted by admin

By:  Ann-erika White Bird

What can I tell you?  I haven’t lived in poverty like this since the last time I lived in poverty like this.  That’s not entirely true, but it sounds good and it used to be true.  However, I haven’t lived in proximity to extreme poverty since the last time I was actually living on minimum wage, poor.

The man lying on the side of BIA 501 at the entrance of the gravel road leading to the grassless, new HUD house might be dead.  The man’s face uplifted to the cloudless sky. It’s see-your-breath cold.  We stop our car.

Our four year old daughter asks, “Is he dead?”  I hesitate.

What do you say to that?  The truth.  “We don’t know.  Daddy’s checking right now.”

This leads me back to the question a friend asked me last fall.  Why did you move back?  My quick answer, of course, is that we moved back to the rez so I could raise the kids full-time, so they could be raised on the land we know.  But that’s not the complete answer.  We moved back because we know that as easily as we are the ones in the car driving thirty miles to buy groceries, we could be the man, flat on his back, staring, or not staring, at the cloudless blue sky.  What separates me from him and me from you is only a perception of height.  Who is better than who based on income, education level, title, fitness, beauty and all around accomplishment?  It’s a daily game in Western culture that everyone, to one degree or another, plays.  In most circles, we treat each other accordingly, whether consciously or not.  It’s in the air like pollution on a cold Denver morning.  You either breathe it in, or you move away. (more…)

Grieving Mom Cries for Help: Says Local Media and Police Chief Wrongfully Blame Her for Her Baby’s Death

May 7, 2012 Posted by admin

By:  Evelyn Red Lodge

Mackey with son Lucus (Photo courtesy Monique Mackey)

Rapid City – A sobbing mother who lost her 3-year-old son in a vehicle accident on Friday and has most of her immediate family in intensive care today called Last Real Indians to report disturbing news.

She began, “Please help me. I lost my baby, and the Rapid City Journal is making it sound like I was drunk and killed my baby.”

Once she could speak again she said, “The Rapid City Journal posted my son’s name in the story and I didn’t even have time to notify everyone. The accident happened at 2:30 p.m. and the Journal posted that story too soon.  Then the writer said I was in the accident.  I was in Rapid City when it (the accident) happened.  And there’s more.”

Last Real Indians found that the RCJ posted an online story:  (http://rapidcityjournal.com/news/rollover-near-red-shirt-kills-toddler-injures-six/article_35929e1a-9660-11e1-b89c-001a4bcf887a.html?mode=story) about her son at 9:16 p.m. on Friday.  According to Mackey’s statement about the time of the accident, it was less than seven hours from the time the accident occurred, and the accident occurred more than an hour’s drive from Rapid City.  The accident occurred on the Pine Ridge Indian Reservation, according to the RCJ. (more…)

NEVER HIT A WOMAN! (UNLESS SHE’S INDIAN). BY KRISTI NOEM

May 7, 2012 Posted by admin

By:  Jayson Brave Heart

“Dear white men: Move to an Indian reservation today, get an Indian girlfriend, and beat her all you want!” This is what Congresswoman Noem and her Republican lackeys want you to know.

 I was raised that you never hit a woman, period. As an Indian man, I was taught this was the Lakota way and the Christian way- but I guess my parents and the bible were wrong.

Of all American women, Indian women need the most protections. 1 out of every 3 Native women will be raped, 39% will be victims of domestic violence. Kristi Noem thinks this is ok, but I am pretty sure rape and domestic violence are not very Christian.

South Dakota’s Congresswoman Noem (R) and the House Republicans are trying to strip the protections for Native women from the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) this Tuesday in Congress. 

Some Indian reservations up to 70% of the population is non-Native. We live in a modern society with lots of interracial dating and marriage. Arcane, outdated, federal law leaves white men who live on Indian reservations, who date and marry Native women, free to beat them.

Federal law has tied Native American Tribes hands behind their back, unable to protect their most precious and sacred asset, our own women. The Indian provisions in VAWA would fix this loophole and recognize Tribes’ concurrent jurisdiction with the federal government to prosecute any man who beats an Indian woman, regardless of his race.

VAWA would fix this loophole. Congresswomen Noem wants this stopped! White men should be free to beat their own Indian woman!

As an Indian guy, if I come to your town and beat one of your white women, I go to jail. If one you white guys comes to my reservation and beats one of our Indian women, you get to make a joke about it in Facebook and a free beer.

Call Congresswoman Kristi Noem (R-SD), tell her Indian women deserve the same protections as white women like her, (202) 225-2801, or your own Member of Congress by calling the Congressional operator at (202) 224-3121.

 Jayson Brave Heart grew up on the Pine Ridge Indian Reservation and is the CEO of Brave Heart Group, LLC. He may not be considered much of a gentleman, but he doesn’t date white women, or hit them.

A Good Day to Die: Dennis Banks Documentary (2010)

May 4, 2012 Posted by admin

By:  Chase Iron Eyes

The title of this documentary, about Dennis Banks –American Indian Movement Co-founder, sends a most powerful message to its viewers:  that any time is an appropriate time to sacrifice for what you believe in.

The documentary chronicles the highlights of the life of Dennis Banks, starting with his childhood years as he was taken away from his mother and sent to boarding schools in northern Minnesota.  The documentary takes us through the violent years of the American Indian Movement (AIM), culminating in the 71 day siege at Wounded Knee, SD, which is still celebrated in the homelands of the Oglala Lakota Oyate (Pine Ridge Reservation).

Boarding schools for Indians is an appropriate place to start this documentary, as that policy of spiritual and cultural genocide is one of the root causes of the circumstances that caused such a response from Dennis Banks and AIM during the formative early years of the movement.  Indian people are still reeling from the Boarding School years, attempting to recover from loss of identity, language, esteem and Indigenous confidence.  The boarding school era cut at the heart of Indians with its sexual, physical, emotional and other abuses perpetrated on children by schools and those representing the Christian faith.  The documentary does an adequate job of prefacing the development of the Indian renaissance with a snapshot of the Boarding School era leading right into the termination and relocation policies of the U.S. government. (more…)

Fostering Hope: Another View of Pine Ridge

May 2, 2012 Posted by admin

By:  Twyla Baker-Demaray

It was my honor to receive an invitation to visit Pine Ridge Indian Reservation and Red Cloud School in Pine Ridge, SD recently.  My husband and I were asked to come and speak to the students of RCS about leadership, education, career goals, and overcoming adversity.  While I was very happy and honored to do so, I was wondering how I would talk to this group of kids about overcoming adversity.  People throughout the U.S. are becoming more aware of the dire circumstances found on Pine Ridge Rez.  Photographer Aaron Huey documented it and spoke of his time in Pine Ridge in his TED talk (http://www.ted.com/talks/aaron_huey.html).  Most recently, the Diane Sawyer report, “A Hidden America” showed stark images of a people ravaged by poverty, disease, alcoholism, violence, and hopelessness.

The reactions throughout the Native social network ran the gamut from sorrow and sympathy, to frustration and indignant anger at what some felt was an unfair portrayal.  In my visit to Pine Ridge, I hoped to connect a few dots for myself.  As a Native person born and raised on Fort Berthold Rez in North Dakota, I’m no stranger to what happens and the circumstances found on the rez.  As a kid, I remember witnessing a woman being violently assaulted by a man I assume was her boyfriend or husband in the parking lot of the convenience store where my mother worked when my father and I came to pick her up after her evening shift.  I know now as an adult that this incident was likely the tip of the iceberg in my hometown.  While cognizant of the ills that exist on far too many reservations throughout Indian Country, I am also keenly aware of why I return there as often as I can, and why I miss it so much.  I have a strong sense of place in regards to my home; it is where my people live and where my culture and stories are.  It is where people continue to speak a language older than America, which is found in no other place on Earth.  It is, in a word, home.  I had a strong feeling that the people of Pine Ridge had the same affinity for their own homelands as I have for mine.  (more…)